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Remember to put the glass down!

remember to put the glass down

 

 

A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: “How heavy is this glass of water?”

 

Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz.

 

She replied, “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed. In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.” She continued, “The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water. Think about them for a while and nothing happens. Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”

 

It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. Remember to put the glass down!

 

via FB: Science is Madness

 

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Today, tomorrow, and yesterday

Remember, today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.
~ Dale Carnegie

today-tomorrow-yesterday

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Worrying will never change the outcome

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Darkrooms

 

Worry is the darkroom where negatives are developed.
~ Author Unknow

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Worry

 

Worry is a misuse of imagination.

~ Dan Zadra

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Traffic jam

 

Thinking about things you cannot change is like purposefully keeping your thoughts stuck in a traffic jam.

 

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Personal success and spiritual victory

 

Whatever brings you to your knees in weakness carries the greatest potential for your personal success and spiritual victory.

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Living in the here and now

 

Living in the here and the now opens up untold possibilities for new growth.  Our inner self is enticed in new directions when our attention is fully in the present.  When our minds are still on last night’s argument or tomorrow’s board meeting, we wear blinders to the activity at hand.  And God, as our teacher and protector, resides in this experience, in the hearts of these people present.

 

Every single moment has something for us.  Maybe a new piece of information.  A piece that solves a problem that’s been puzzling us, perhaps a chance to make a new friend, one who will be there in a time of need.

 

Letting go of yesterday frees us.  We need not be burdened.  It is gone.  Our lives could be eased so much if we kept our focus on the experience at hand, where the problems we ponder have their solutions.  Always.

 

I will greet today, skipping, smiling, ready for the answers, the truths, the directions meant only for me.  The wonders of today will bless me.

 

Source (modified):  Each Day a New Beginning | Hazelden Meditations

 

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Worrying is a waste of time

 

Worrying is a waste of time.  It doesn’t change anything.  It messes with your mind and steals your happiness.

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If you always speak of your troubles

 

If you always speak of your troubles, you will always have troubles to speak of.

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TODAY is the TOMORROW you worried about YESTERDAY

 

TODAY is the TOMORROW you worried about YESTERDAY.

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Why worry?

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Your worst battle

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Everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle…

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Worrying over the squalls in life…

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Coulda, Shoulda, Woulda

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Don’t stumble over something behind you

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Nobel Prize Winner Weighs in on “Don’t Worry; Be Happy”

 

Nobel Prize Winner Weighs in on “Don’t Worry; Be Happy” | Psychology Today.

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Children are happy…

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Flowers never worry…

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The Concerns of a Mouse | A Parable

 

 

 

 

 

 

A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package.

“What food might this contain?”  The mouse wondered.

He was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.

Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed this warning :

“There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”

The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, “Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.”

Animated Chicken

The mouse turned to the pig and told him, “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”


 

The pig sympathized, but said, “I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it.”

The mouse turned to the cow and said, “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”

The cow said, “Wow, Mr. Mouse. I’m sorry for you, but it’s no skin off my nose.”

 So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s mousetrap.

 … Alone

That very night a sound was heard throughout the house the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.

 The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught.

In the darkness, she did not see it.

It was a venomous snake whose tail was caught in the trap.

The snake bit the farmer’s wife.

The farmer rushed her to the hospital.

When she returned home she still had a fever.

Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup.

So the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup’s main ingredient:

But his wife’s sickness continued.

Friends and neighbors came to sit  with her around the clock.

To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig. 



But, alas, the farmer’s wife did not get well…

She died.

So many people came for her funeral that the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them for the
funeral luncheon..

And the mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.

So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and you think it doesn’t concern you, remember — 

When one of us is threatened, we are all at risk.

We are all involved in this journey called life.

We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another…

The concerns of a mouse… — Animal Talk.

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