Giving and receiving

Perhaps in receiving, we heal others; in giving, we heal ourselves.




Proceed with caution

Instead of a sign that says “Do Not Disturb,” I need one that says “Already disturbed, proceed with caution.”




Egyptian Triangle Puzzle →


Surveyors in ancient Egypt had a simple tool for making near-perfect right triangles: a loop of rope divided by knots into twelve equal sections. When they stretched the rope to make a triangle whose sides were in the ratio 3:4:5, they knew the largest angle was a right angle.


Can you fit the five pieces at bottom into the two smaller squares above the right triangle? Then can you fit the same five pieces into the larger square below the right triangle? If you can do both, what have you done?



via Puzzles in Education – Egyptian Triangle.



Between music and medicine

When Robert Gupta was caught between a career as a doctor and as a violinist, he realized his place was in the middle, with a bow in his hand and a sense of social justice in his heart. He tells a moving story of society’s marginalized and the power of music therapy, which can succeed where conventional medicine fails.


via Robert Gupta: Between music and medicine – YouTube.


The Nine Types of Intelligence




1. Naturalist Intelligence (“Nature Smart”)


Designates the human ability to discriminate among living things (plants, animals) as well as sensitivity to other features of the natural world (clouds, rock configurations). This ability was clearly of value in our evolutionary past as hunters, gatherers, and farmers; it continues to be central in such roles as botanist or chef. It is also speculated that much of our consumer society exploits the naturalist intelligences, which can be mobilized in the discrimination among cars, sneakers, kinds of makeup, and the like.


2. Musical Intelligence (“Musical Smart”)


Musical intelligence is the capacity to discern pitch, rhythm, timbre, and tone. This intelligence enables us to recognize, create, reproduce, and reflect on music, as demonstrated by composers, conductors, musicians, vocalist, and sensitive listeners. Interestingly, there is often an affective connection between music and the emotions; and mathematical and musical intelligences may share common thinking processes. Young adults with this kind of intelligence are usually singing or drumming to themselves. They are usually quite aware of sounds others may miss.


3. Logical-Mathematical Intelligence (Number/Reasoning Smart)


Logical-mathematical intelligence is the ability to calculate, quantify, consider propositions and hypotheses, and carry out complete mathematical operations. It enables us to perceive relationships and connections and to use abstract, symbolic thought; sequential reasoning skills; and inductive and deductive thinking patterns. Logical intelligence is usually well developed in mathematicians, scientists, and detectives. Young adults with lots of logical intelligence are interested in patterns, categories, and relationships. They are drawn to arithmetic problems, strategy games and experiments.


4.Existential Intelligence


Sensitivity and capacity to tackle deep questions about human existence, such as the meaning of life, why do we die, and how did we get here.


5. Interpersonal Intelligence (People Smart”)


Interpersonal intelligence is the ability to understand and interact effectively with others. It involves effective verbal and nonverbal communication, the ability to note distinctions among others, sensitivity to the moods and temperaments of others, and the ability to entertain multiple perspectives. Teachers, social workers, actors, and politicians all exhibit interpersonal intelligence. Young adults with this kind of intelligence are leaders among their peers, are good at communicating, and seem to understand others’ feelings and motives.


6. Bodily-Kinesthetic Intelligence (“Body Smart”)


Bodily kinesthetic intelligence is the capacity to manipulate objects and use a variety of physical skills. This intelligence also involves a sense of timing and the perfection of skills through mind–body union. Athletes, dancers, surgeons, and craftspeople exhibit well-developed bodily kinesthetic intelligence.


7. Linguistic Intelligence (Word Smart)


Linguistic intelligence is the ability to think in words and to use language to express and appreciate complex meanings. Linguistic intelligence allows us to understand the order and meaning of words and to apply meta-linguistic skills to reflect on our use of language. Linguistic intelligence is the most widely shared human competence and is evident in poets, novelists, journalists, and effective public speakers. Young adults with this kind of intelligence enjoy writing, reading, telling stories or doing crossword puzzles.


8. Intra-personal Intelligence (Self Smart”)


Intra-personal intelligence is the capacity to understand oneself and one’s thoughts and feelings, and to use such knowledge in planning and directioning one’s life. Intra-personal intelligence involves not only an appreciation of the self, but also of the human condition. It is evident in psychologist, spiritual leaders, and philosophers. These young adults may be shy. They are very aware of their own feelings and are self-motivated.


9. Spatial Intelligence (“Picture Smart”)


Spatial intelligence is the ability to think in three dimensions. Core capacities include mental imagery, spatial reasoning, image manipulation, graphic and artistic skills, and an active imagination. Sailors, pilots, sculptors, painters, and architects all exhibit spatial intelligence. Young adults with this kind of intelligence may be fascinated with mazes or jigsaw puzzles, or spend free time drawing or daydreaming.





Want to Improve your Communication Skills?



1. Listen carefully when others are speaking. Keep your mouth shut – and focus totally on them.


2. Never, ever talk over other people. This is disrespectful – and a real turn off.


3. Even if the person leaves an hour between each word, resist the temptation to complete their sentence for them.


4. Don’t interrupt – let the other person finish. Then, acknowledge what they’ve shared before adding your own thoughts.


5. Paraphrase or summarise what’s just been shared. It shows that you have listened – and are keen to understand.


6. Maintain good eye contact as this says you’re interested, and the speaker and their story are important to you.




Send a heart attack to a loved one

Send a heart attack to a loved one who is out of town. Write one thing you love about the person on each of the hearts. A wonderful long-distance show of love for Valentine’s Day.


Send a box of hearts


You may update your Facebook status

I now pronounce you husband and wife! You may update your Facebook status!




Man, are we in trouble

You guys are our GUARD dogs? Man, are we in trouble.




Charcoal and diamonds

A diamond is just a piece of charcoal that handled stress exceptionally well.





Never give up

Never Give Up | Many of the life failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.




Correct your mind

If you correct your mind, the rest of your life will fall into place.
~ Lao Tzu




Needing approval



Something to think about…


Wanting others to approve our efforts, our appearance, our aspirations and behavior is perfectly normal, ceterainly not unhealthy.  However, needing the approval in order to proceed with our lives is.


In early childhood, we are taught to obey others and to please them.  We confuse love with approval, and we begin to march to someone else’s drum.  Then we get even more approval.  But, soon we get out of step with ourselves; we neglect our personal needs and become puppets.


Giving away our power to the whims of others weakens our spirit.  Personal freedom means choosing our own behavior; it means acting rather than reacting.  It also means allowing ourselves the full adventure of living, of meeting each moment wholly, of responding in a pure, spontaneous, personally honest manner.  Only then can we give to life what is ours to give.


Each of us has a unique part to play in the drama of life.  And we need to rely on our higher power for our cues, not on those whose approval we think we need.  When we turn within for guidance, all the approval we could hope for will be ours.


Source (modified):  Each Day a New Beginning | Hazelden Meditations



Educate their hearts

It is vital, when educating our children’s brains, that we do not neglect to educate their hearts.
~ Dalai Lama